There is a time and a client for every one of the many coaching niches out there: executive, health & wellness, career, relationship, finance, just to name a few.
Coaching is the practice of facilitating the client’s evolution from where they are to where they want to be.
A traditional life coach operates like a general medical practitioner. They give you a general idea of what ails you and provide the necessary medicine that will get you back into your groove.
Using the same analogy, if a general practitioner finds that what ails you needs a deeper, more critical set of eyes, a specialist will be requested. This professional knows that the real root of the problem is all too often masked or hidden from plain sight, requiring searing, unrelenting, unconventional Sherlock-like tenacity.
Enter Evolutionary Life Coaching, which is what I do.
Picture this. You’re in your kitchen cooking up something, and you drop a piece of food. You kneel down to pick it up and now notice just how dirty your kitchen floor is. Damn! I didn’t know my kitchen was that nasty!
What’s your next move?
- I’ll clean it up later when I have time.
- (Translation: “I’m going to avoid this as long as possible.”)
- Well, I guess it’s not that bad.
- (Translation: Suppression/Repression – “I mean, you can’t really see it if you don’t go down there.”)
- Someone else will notice and clean it up.
- (Translation: “I’m used to other people always cleaning up my messes.”)
- Disgusting! Let me get the Clorox and Lysol right now before this whole kitchen gets infected and infested.
- (Congratulations! You recognize that unacknowledged messes can quickly overrun your whole home.)
Now, instead of you noticing a dirty kitchen floor, you notice a strong and unexpected emotional reaction to what someone just said or did. Or perhaps you experience consistent inner rumblings that just won’t go away. Or feelings like you’re stuck waist-deep in mud without a helpful arm or a branch in sight.
As your Evolutionary Life Coach, I am honored to co-participate in your transformational inner excavation.
What I Do
I help people uncover and transcend the lifelong inner barriers inhibiting their natural flow of inner peace.
How I do it
Self-confrontation: Recognize your emotional sore spots and triggers.
Self-inquiry: Inquire within as you connect the dots to old, unacknowledged emotional and psychological wounds.
Self-excavation: Drill down into your suppressed and repressed psyche that you have unconsciously disassociated yourself from.
Rant: Feel it all and rant it out through creative expression, i.e., journaling, drawing, music.
Reframe: Shift your perspective as you see your situation from a broader viewpoint.
Reclaim Responsibility: Break the cycle of self-absorption and the drama it creates. You are not your story; you are greater than your story.
Reconnect: All parts of you RE-UNITE! Re-member you are already whole, perfect, and complete.
Why I do it
Everyone’s birthright is to feel appreciated, loved, and connected to the Oneness that we ALL are.